superficiality comes from a preoccupation with 'circumstances'
'circumstances' are the creation of your life
so, if the circumstances are not what you want
and your life is only about
worrying about events
wondering about people
dealing with circumstances
disconnect from your 'life'
step away from the box
and only look to yourself for the answers
of what you created
you are really never a victim
except to that of your
try it ... it may help you out of the life you are not enjoying very much anyway.
if you don't want to, why are you still complaining? be happy.
peace & harmony,
'freedom must be exercised to stay in shape!'